Frequently Asked Questions
Find answers to common questions about yoni massage
Below you will find answers to the most commonly asked questions about yoni massage, sessions, what to expect, and how to book.
If your question is not answered here, please feel free to contact me.
What is a yoni massage?
A yoni massage is not the same as a tantric massage, and is very different to a typical massage. It's a holistic practice that can help women work through emotional stress, heal, feel more at ease in their bodies, relax and discover new ways to enjoy greater pleasure. Learn more about yoni massage.
What should I expect during a session?
Your session will begin with a conversation to discuss your needs, boundaries and any questions you may have. The massage itself involves full body relaxation followed by focused attention on the yoni area. You are in control throughout and can stop or adjust at any time.
Are there benefits?
Yes there can be lots of benefits— including physical, sexual and emotional. Please click for more details.
Are regular sessions advisable?
. It’s entirely up to you, but you can benefit more with regular sessions. Discover more
Is it safe?
Yes, your safety and comfort are the top priorities. Clear boundaries are established before we begin, and you have complete control over the session at all times.
How long does it last?
There is a lot more involved with yoni than a typical massage. The minimum is 90 minutes, but to get the most of your experience you should book at least 2 hours. Please click for more details on session duration.
Why do yoni massages last longer?
It is frequently said that while male energy is akin to fire, female energy is like water – requiring time to warm up or cool down. This is one reason why many women are yet to reach their full sensory potential. Longer sessions focused more on you can help you to fulfil that potential — perhaps for the first time.
How many sessions do you do a day?
This isn't a typical massage service that involves seeing clients all day long, back to back in factory fashion. Quality yoni massages take more time, it's more personalised, and it's more about connecting, establishing trust, and helping clients on multiple levels (physical, emotional and sexually). As such I tend to focus my energies on helping one client per day maximum.
Would you consider seeing two clients on the same day?
It is not something I normally do, but if for example, you and a friend would both like to take advantage of my service, then seeing you both on the same day is feasible, as long as there was sufficient time between sessions.
Are there any clients you don't see?
I'm happy to help women of all ethnicities who are 21 and over. At the same time, massages are sometimes not recommended for people with certain medical conditions. These are listed on the booking page. But if the listed medical conditions do not apply then I am happy to see you.
Is it a sports or deep tissue massage?
No, it is a totally different experience. It's not a sports, deep tissue, Swedish or Thai massage. There is a lot more involved, and with a lot more potential benefits.
Is tantra involved?
Yes, there are tantric elements, and these help when it comes to connecting, relaxing and circulating sexual energy.
What if I have any concerns?
Some concerns are quite normal, and I welcome questions about any concerns that you may have so that we can address them. You can bring these up either upfront, or at our session.
What about boundaries?
Boundaries is one such concern, and I welcome discussing and addressing any concerns with you.
Are you male or female?
Male.
Should I be nervous?
Nerves are a natural emotion, and if we haven't had a session before there may be some nerves or uncertainty. That said, it's worth remembering that you are in the driver's seat, we can set boundaries, and we don't need to do anything that you don't want to. Really there should be more reason for excitement than nerves, and those with initial nerves usually find that they dissipate pretty quickly.
Do I have to be naked?
It is difficult to have a full yoni massage unless you are naked, and if you aren't naked you won't get the same experience, but if that is a concern of yours you can certainly remain in your underwear if that is your preference and within your own personal boundaries.
Does it involve massaging the vagina?
Yes, in addition to a very sensual body massage, yoni involves massaging erogenous zones including the breasts and pelvic area including around the vulva and anus. It also normally includes internal vaginal, and potentially anal massage, if it is within your boundaries.
Do I need to climax?
While orgasm is common with yoni massages, it is not the goal, and no one will judge you if you don't. The experience is more about you becoming more attuned with your body and your own true feelings and emotions.
What if I never orgasm?
Some women report vaginal insensitivity, absence of feelings and inability to express their love or reach orgasm. This isn't so uncommon. It could be that, for one reason or another, such as fear, guilt, embarrassment, shame, repression of traumas or previous negative experiences that your pathways to orgasm have been blocked. This isn't necessarily permanent. Indeed, you could well find that your new yoni experience might be instrumental in changing all that by, among other things, clearing blockages and increasing circulating sexual energy.
Are there any other blockages?
There can also be other emotional and physical blockages, in areas that may even have got blocked years previously. Yoni tantric massage can help unlock blockages.
What expectations do you have of me?
I don't have any expectations. Many people just say what they've been led to believe they are expected to say. With my yoni massage however, you are free to feel what you really feel, and express your own true emotions. You can be free (perhaps for the first time) to connect with your body, become acquainted with your authentic feelings, and express them openly — without expectations or judgment. It can be a very liberating experience.
Will you judge me?
No.
Do you enjoy your work?
Most definitely. It's my calling, and it gives me a great deal of satisfaction to help people shed insecurities, grow from within, and find greater pleasure for themselves. I also feel blessed and privileged each time a unique and wonderful person opens up, shares with me and welcomes me into their exciting voyage of rediscovery.
Is it an incall or a mobile service?
It is a mobile service to your home or hotel. At the same time I am looking for a peaceful and relaxed venue, and once that has been established I will look to offer incalls too. If you have a venue you feel would be suitable for that, please feel free to contact me with details.
What areas of Scotland and the UK do you cover?
I cover Scotland's central belt from Edinburgh to Glasgow and as far South as Scottish Borders and Dumfries and Galloway. I can also travel further afield in Scotland. Learn more about locations.
Do you offer your service in other parts of the UK?
Yes, parts of Northeast England and Cumbria.
Are things confidential?
Yes, we value both your privacy and trust, and both discretion and
confidentiality are paramount.
How do I book?
I'd be happy to help you. Please start by completing the booking request form.
Can I contact you with any questions before I book?
Certainly, contact details are on this page.